brightmind , 43,
Female seeking Male,
More About MeI am educated, hard working and an awesome mother. I have 2 degrees and working toward another one in Civil Engineering, purely because I want to engage myself in my late husband's work and feel like an information sponge. I have 2 jobs that I love. mainly my job is Construction Engineering which allow me to travel a lot and whenever am coming back i get antiques and bring to sell back home and I am a distributor for a sex toy company. These occupations do consume a lot of my time but my son is my priority. He is 6 and the most precious gift ever given to me. I was married 9 years ago and has been widowed now for 4 years. I dabbled into the dating game avoiding serious commitments due to the fear of rebound relationships and also being free after that long was somewhat a fun journey but now I am looking for something more serious. I am not looking for an overnight wedding ring nor a one night stand, so I request those inquiries skip me over and find someone that is more into the situation at hand for you. I do not blame every man for the mistakes of others and I hope that you don't blame every woman for the mistakes of those in your past. I'm not big on self pity or want to be someone's relationship counselor.nI find that many better people are on these sites so I apologize if that comes off mean or unjustified but I feel strongly all relationship dissolve based on the lack of communication, spice or finances due to both parties ultimately.nI believe in God and that Eve was created for the enjoyment and companionship of Adam; therefore, it is the woman's role to serve and satisfy the man in her life. He should be the dominant one in the relationship, leading the path and direction in which it will take. She should be submissive because he should not ask her to do things harmful but instead she should trust that he will protect and cherish her always. With that said, if you know what a switch is in the bedroom; then you will understand the role in which I can assume but prefer being the submissive. I am very interested in LTR relationships; however have not been in one yet.I hope to have enlighten you into a small pieces of my life and gave you talking points for future discussions. I hope to hear from you soon...
Hobbies / Interests / ActivitiesI hate those moments right before you go to sleep, when you are forced to think about all the things you tried so hard to forget
Favorite MoviesRomance Movies
Where You Were RaisedCOlumbus, IN
Friday or Saturday Nights Irelax at home with my son
Secreti hate lie